Hopefully you all had a lovely Thanksgiving holiday! I definitely enjoyed mine. It was great to get a break from all the college stress, and my boyfriend and I were blessed enough to enjoy two Thanksgiving meals actually - one with his family at his house, and one with my family at my house!
Anyway, today I thought I would do a countdown to highlight a few of
my own personal favorite Autumn trends for 2012, and how to rock them modestly! Check it out -
4. COLORED ANORAKS
Below is a self-portrait I took wearing one of the two colored anoraks I purchased this Fall! I bought this burnt orange beauty at my current favorite store - H&M - for 30% off. (I love November sales!)
Anyway, it's hard not to be a neutrals person, especially in the fall/winter season, because the tendency is to gravitate towards dark, muted tones in order to absorb warmth. (Look it up - people wear brighter colors in the summer to keep cool and darker colors in the winter to keep warm!) However, that doesn't mean we have to let the cold weather suck out all the color from our wardrobes - which is why this year I'm really liking the dark but colored anoraks that are populating the store racks right now. It's a nice change from the typical brown or black jackets we all see year round.
Styling Tip: I personally love dressing anoraks down with a cozy sweater, a pair of dark skinny jeans or leggings, and a nice flat brown boot!
3. DENIM BUTTON DOWNS
Below I'm wearing a light-washed denim button down from J.Crew. (If you shop at J.Crew stores and you're a student, make sure you bring your student ID next time! With a valid ID, you can get 15% off your purchase which comes in
so handy when you're on a college budget!)
Okay, let's all just be real here - denim button downs will never go out of fashion. So I think it's a great piece to invest in. I've had mine for a year and a half at least, and I've worn it in every season - even in summer, and I live in southern California! I also like that button down shirts in general are so flexible. You can wear it completely buttoned up, completely buttoned down over a cute tee or tank, halfway buttoned with an undershirt, underneath a cute crewneck sweater - I've even worn it layered over a slim hooded sweatshirt!
Styling Tip: Try wearing a denim button down with denim skinny jeans! Denim on denim is a great formula for success - just make sure there's contrast in the shades of denim. I pair this particular shirt with dark black or dark blue skinny jeans in order to create a good balance in contrast.
2. WESTERN ANKLE BOOTS
So I
love Madewell - their design, styling, and of course their fashion. However, their clothes/accessories/shoes are so expensive that I can barely afford a pair of socks there, much less a pair of genuine Italian suede + leather lined shoes. Last month I was at the Madewell in Old Town Pasadena, and I was eying The Zipcode Boot they sell. All the colors they sell of this particular western ankle boot - castle rock, rusted red, and transatlantic blue - are beautiful, especially for Fall! Unfortunately, the $198 price tag was an immediate turn off. I'm all for investing in pieces that will last, but I personally feel like $200 for a single pair of shoes crosses the modesty line. Even though God's word doesn't state how much we should or shouldn't spend on shoes, His word
does instruct against buying costly garments -
"likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness - with good works."
-1 Timothy 2:9-10
Now you may be thinking "wait a second, braiding your hair is immodest?"And to that I say no (read below to see why!) For modern day Christians, this verse can seem somewhat ambiguous and make people a little bit uneasy. I like to refer to Christian columns/websites for further guidance as to how to correctly live out vague scripture like this. This article (
https://www.christiancourier.com/articles/206-what-about-braided-hair) shares some really great insight into this particular passage in 1 Timothy. To comment on the matter of braids and the specific things Paul mentions in this letter to Timothy, I want to quote a few paragraphs from the article:
First the author, Wayne Jackson gives us an informal definition of immodesty by saying people can be immodest "by being underdressed or extravagantly dressed." I think so often we don't realize that modesty isn't just in relation to how much skin you're showing. Jackson goes on to write that "the emphasis of this passage is upon the development of inner spiritual qualities, which could be obscured by outlandish dress. Paul is not condemning the items mentioned per se. What he is prohibiting is that excess which would detract from the woman's spiritual charms. It would not be sinful for a Christian woman to wear a wedding ring of gold, though gold is mentioned. It is however, in my judgement, a sign of ostentation to see women wearing rings on virtually every finger, some on her toes, and three or four in each ear - not to mention nose and eyebrow rings, studs, etc...Moreover, Paul's prohibition includes 'costly raiment.' How much does 'costly' cost? Compared to what many folks in third world countries wear, virtually anything we put on is costly. The way we dress within our culture is, therefore, to some degree a factor in exercising good judgment...The point is this: for both women and men, one may dress well, and even fashionable within his cultural circumstances; however, he or she should avoid being show-offish. Inner traits should be paramount in our public demeanor. Christ should be magnified in us..."
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Anyway, that's how I feel about modesty as well, which is why when I found virtually the same ankle boots as the ones from Madewell (pictured above) for a tenth of the price, I
pounced!
These Sueded Slip-On Western Booties were $19 at Charlotte Russe last month (and they're still on sale for the same price on their website right now! -
http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/Shoes/Boots/Western-Boots/entity/pc/2115/c/2656/sc/2828/206231.uts). I bought the pair in the color "cognac" and considering the fact that they're my only heels (and I have thus practically
lived in them for the past two months) I would say they are actually pretty amazing quality for the price!
Styling Tip: Okay this is going to seem super weird, but I've been loving wearing these ankle boots with socks! For whatever reason, last year I totally ran out of socks (where they went I have ZERO clue) and I picked up a variety pack of neutral colored Merona brand socks from Target, and I still have them and still love them! I also highly recommend the brand MUJI. It's a Japanese brand, but they have stores in other parts of the world. I went to the Philippines with my aunt & uncle two summers ago to visit for the first time (I'm half Filipino and most of my extended family still resides there) and my aunt & uncle introduced me to MUJI. Their socks are great quality, and I'm so glad I stocked up because I believe MUJI only has 3 stores located in the United States and they are all in New York. (And their online store - which is in itself already very limited - is almost always out of socks!) Anyway, back to the point. Ankle boots + socks = total win. Just try it.
1. SUPER COZY SWEATERS
Sweaters are essentially my
uniform. I wear them year round, but I especially like wearing them in the Fall. There's just something about the crisp Autumn air! Anyway sweaters are also really great because they're almost always modest in terms of skin coverage. They aren't always modest in terms of price, but lately I've been seeing some wonderfully reasonably-priced sweaters at places like H&M and ASOS.
Styling Tip: Lately I've been really into buying sweaters oversized in bigger medium/large sizes, and pairing them with a pair of thick leggings and flats for a cute, comfy look, or with boots and a top knot for an edgier look.
Anyway, I've got some more exciting posts lined up, and I'll be updating a lot more frequently soon! Especially next month after the 14th. Keep your eyes peeled! Also check out my tumblr photo blog dedicated to modesty (Follow the "MODESTY" link in the upper right sidebar).
Love,
Jenny